Why Your Spouse Won’t Inherit From You

Did you know that your spouse won’t automatically inherit everything from you?  That’s because in Louisiana, if you die without a will, the first in line to inherit are your children, not your spouse.  Yes, all biological and adopted children inherit before anyone else.  That could leave a surviving spouse owning their home with their children and stepchildren.  For simplicity, this article uses the example of the husband dying first.  But keep in mind, the information is the same no matter who dies first.

INHERITANCE DOES NOT ALWAYS MEAN OWNERSHIP

It’s not always true that a surviving spouse inherits everything and she can do with it as she pleases.  What she will inherit is use of everything she and her husband own together, but not ownership of it.  If she wants to do anything significant with her home, she’ll have to first get permission from her children and stepchildren, or her grandchildren if there is a deceased child or stepchild.

A surviving spouse inherits some limited protection in that she will be able to stay in her home and use the money in the bank, but she does not own either alone.  She does not have full control.  And guess what?  If she remarries, she loses her right to use whatever her deceased husband left behind.  The children and stepchildren could demand she buys them out.

WHAT HAPPENS IF A COUPLE DIES WITHOUT A WILL

Louisiana is a community property state, which means a married couple owns just about everything half and half.  If the husband has four children and he dies first without a will, ownership of all community property assets will look something like Illustration No. 1.  

 
 

And if the wife has two children and she subsequently also dies without a will, ownership of all community property assets the couple leaves behind will look something like Illustration No. 2. 

 

 
 

Whether or not this couple has children together, the outcome is the same.  People who are not related by blood, who may or may not even like each other, end up owning property and money together.  Imagine the confusion that ensues when everybody has differing opinions about what should happen with that property and money.

CREATE YOUR OWN ESTATE PLAN TO PROTECT YOUR SPOUSE AND YOUR CHILDREN

Whether or not you and your spouse have the same children or different children from previous relationships, if you don’t like the estate plan Louisiana has established for you, you must create your own estate plan.  Even if you don’t want your spouse to inherit everything, you can use powers of attorney and a will to protect him or her from being vulnerable and exposed to the whims of disagreeable, uncooperative children or stepchildren.

If you want your spouse to have more protection and control, then give your family clear instructions about how you want things handled, who you want in charge and what you want to happen if you suddenly become seriously ill or die. To ensure calm waters during emergencies, illnesses, and death, get serious about having your powers of attorney and a will prepared. 

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Paula Vincent Johnson

Paula Vincent Johnson is a Louisiana civil law notary in private practice since 2004. She could talk all day about the powerful impact and simplicity of basic estate planning in Louisiana. She loves sharing her knowledge and experience to help families avoid the pitfalls of waiting until the last minute to get their affairs in order. She is on a mission to empower her community with information, guidance, and support in creating positive legacies so they can live better lives. That’s why the primary focus of her notarial practice is powers of attorney, wills, small succession affidavits, and transfers of inherited property. Paula recently served on the board of the Louisiana Notary Association, and as host/coordinator of regular virtual statewide meetings during the height of the pandemic. For five years, Paula served as an instructor at the association’s annual conventions and speaker at its in-person monthly meetings throughout southern Louisiana. Paula especially enjoys working with her clients, as well as mentoring and educating new and experienced notaries. She is an avid reader (nowadays audio book listener) and loves to binge watch legal dramas (television and movies).

While Paula is an expert in her field, she is not an attorney. The information presented on this website should not be taken as, nor is it intended to be a substitute for, legal advice.

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